There is a quote: "LIFE IS NOT ABOUT WAITING FOR THE STORMS TO PASS.... IT'S ABOUT LEARNING TO DANCE IN THE RAIN."
With 12 children and 5 adopted from Russia, we have had challenges and trials along with our joys. We have decided that we must
learn how to "dance in the rain." We must notice and acknowledge the joys and miracles in our lives.
They exist daily -- we just need to make sure we do not miss them!! This blog is to remind us of these miracles and joys!

Monday, June 3, 2013

JUNE 3, 2013: HYRUM'S WEEKLY LETTER #3

HYRUM'S WEEKLY LETTER #3
JUNE 3, 2013

3 Jun 2013
 
So this week started out pretty poorly, but quickly turned very good! On Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and half of Thursday, I don't know what happened, but things were not so great. I didn't feel like I was progressing, our investigator lessons didn't go well at all. I'm not sure what caused it, but for a few days everything was harder and I was feeling the Spirit as much. Maybe my mind was too distracted with the outside world or something, but luckily it all turned around Thursday night.
 
We had a really neat experience Thursday night with a teaching demonstration that our class was a part of. For some reason, our class has been targeted as a good "guinea pig" class, so there have been a couple of extra things that we have done, including a bit of new curriculum they are testing. And then our investigator lessons went so well on Friday!! I decided that I needed to stop taking in so many notes to our lessons. Reading from a script really hinders the Spirit that we can have in our lessons. So on Friday I just took in a general outline and some key Chinese vocab words. The lesson itself went pretty well, but the best part was at the end. Our investigators name is Lin Dixiong (played by our teacher Huang Laoshi), and after we taught a lesson about eternal families and prayer, we asked to pray. I know it was still my teacher who was the investigator, but his prayer was so sweet. I felt the Spirit and I know he and my companion did too. It was really amazing.
 
Our other investigators name is Roy. He is played by our other teacher Mu Laoshi. This week for our second lessons, we taught a great lesson about the power of prayer, and then finished with the story of the First Vision. The story of the First Vision is so powerful! Even though I was reading it (I didn't have it memorized then), it still brought the Spirit into our lesson. After the story, we asked him a few questions and then asked him to say the prayer, which was also great. After the prayer, we challenged him to pray to know if the First Vision story was true, to which he said a few sentences I didn't understand. After about five minutes, we finally understood he was saying "xiangxin" which means believe. He said that he already believed in Joseph Smith! Then, even though it wasn't in our planned, I asked him if he would commit to baptism, to which he agreed!! It's still not a real investigator, but that doesn't mean it's not exciting! We were on top of the world! It's great to imagine how much better that will be when it's for reals!
 
Here's a great thought we talked about in class one day.
There are four levels of training:
1. Being unconsciously untrained - means to be unaware how bad you are at something
2. Being consciously untrained - which means you know that you are bad at something, but you don't know yet how to be better
3. Being consciously trained - which means that you are really good at something, but you still have to work really hard at performing to that level
4. Being unconsciously trained - this means that the level that you perform  at comes naturally, and you don't have to think about it anymore
 
Obviously the best one is the fourth level, but it takes a lot of work to get there. In our case, it applied to missionary work, and teaching correct doctrine and using all the elements of effective teaching, but it works for most things that require practice! Musical instruments, communicating with others, being kind to people, almost anything! I really liked that.
 
So this week in our classes we talked a lot about the mantle of missionary work. In that teaching demonstration I talked about, and in most of our other classes and demonstrations, the teachers will stop and ask the missionaries for help. These teachers are all return missionaries, and they all know what they are doing, but they are no longer set apart as full time missionaries. Only a missionary is entitled to the gift of perception and revelation pertaining to directly to an investigator. It's really neat to think about how I am entitled to that, and I hope I can continue to learn how to receive it!
 
Chinese is awesome. It's really hard, but it's such a neat and interesting language. In chinese, when you are trying to describe something, you use a few simple words to describe it, rather than like English where we just make up a new word. For example, faith is "xinxin" (two different tones) which literally translates as "heart message." The word for computer game (which I learned so that I could ask an investigator about it) is "diandong" which means "light move." Missionary is "chuanjiaoshi" which means "spread gospel person." Chinese is really neat like that! I also appreciate that they have a specific word for when something is "kitty-corner" to something else, "xieduimian" (diagonal across place). Of course, this method makes for funny sentences when you translate from english to chinese and back to chinese. There's a line in the first vision story when Joseph says something is "directly over my head." In chinese, it's "zheng zai wo tou shang" which means "right at me head top."
 
Chinese is really awesome. We had a testimony meeting in church yesterday, and it was nice to hear people say simple sentences that I could understand! I'm doing fairly well at speaking, but the biggest thing I'm struggling with is listening. In our lesson Friday with Lin Dixiong, I challenged him to pray everyday. He then talked for about 30 seconds, of which I caught exactly one word. That word was "peiyang" which means to develop. So basically I used that one word to guess the meaning of his entire speech. It was great.
 
We Chinese speakers think that the English speakers are pretty weaksauce, but we're also all just a little bit jealous that teaching is so easy in English, and that they get to leave here in ten days from when they arrive. We've been here twice that time and still have 7 weeks to go! We're all already rarin' to get to Taiwan and start preaching the word! We're also upset cause we are down in the basement of one of the oldest buildings, and the english speakers get the newest building. So that's fun. Haha oh well. We get to learn Chinese!
 
I think next week I'm going to give you guys a bio and picture of everybody in my district. I'll spend some time this week writing it out so that I can do it in an hour of email time.
 
Until next week!
Elder Richardson
 
 Caption: This is my daily planner page for Wednesday. It was a busy day!

MAY 2013: ADORABLE ABIGAIL

ADORABLE ABIGAIL
MAY 2013

Before I left Utah, I had to take a lot of pictures of our sweet new granddaughter!  What a beautiful baby she is!




MEMORIAL DAY 2013

MEMORIAL DAY 2013
After spending all day canning and processing meat, we stopped for our own little BBQ and dancing on the deck!  Our kids are hilarious!!!  Just watch!!!


NOTE:  I now understand that when I turn my phone sidewards and the screen stays the same, the end product of the video is still sidewards.  Sorry.  Just tip your head to watch the video clips!!!


Sunday, June 2, 2013

MAY 31, 2013 -- UNOFFICIAL YOUNG WOMEN SLUMBER PARTY

UNOFFICIAL YOUNG WOMEN SLUMBER PARTY
MAY 31, 2013
Our plans for a "Camp Trial Run" evening campout was spoiled by the potential of severe weather that ended up delaying its arrival until late in the night -- but we compromised and had an unofficial YW Sleepover and had a blast!  Bethany and Jasmine made a fun camping cake to celebrate Lizzie's birthday and we all enjoyed cake and ice cream!
Happy Birthday Lizzie!!  We will miss you in the Beehives!
 There was lots of "Ultimate Hide and Seek", "Ghosts in the Graveyard", "Truth or Truth until 5am, and lots of "When I'm Gone" cup slappin' and singing!
 We had tons of fun doing the cup thing-a-ma-jig rouine!
Even Sister Richardson learned to do it!!!
Watch the video below!!!

 WATCH THE VIDEOS!!!





MAY 28, 2013 -- FENCING

A FENCING FAMILY
MAY 28, 2013
I, mom, finally was able to go to fencing and watch the kids.  It was really fun!
Can you guess who these Richardson Kids are???
There are a lot of pictures but go to the end and watch some of the sparring videos!!!
Rachel
Bethany -- above and below
Daniel -- above and below
Bethany was on fire this night and won almost all her matches!
Rachel is aggressive and determined!
Rachel and David go at it! David is left handed so he is hard to beat!
Rachel just loves it!
Daniel and Bethany fence

David and Rachel are instructed by Coach Nadia

Rebecca
Daniel worked so hard to keep good form!
Rachel and Hannah are good friends and both enjoy fencing
Daniel and Rebecca

Daniel working to keep that left arm up and back!

 NOTE:  I sort of didn't realize that when I turned my phone to the side that the video being recorded didn't adjust like the screen did.  You will have to turn your head to the side to watch these!!!  Sorry!!!  If you know how I can fix it, let me know!!!







 

MAY 27, 2013 -- 240 LBS OF MEAT

240 LBS OF MEAT
MAY 27, 2013

Well, several things prompted this large purchase of meat!  
First, we have used up all the meat that we canned a couple of years ago.  Good thing!
Second, it will serve us well to have canned meat for our 2 weeks in Nauvoo.
Third, we learned from a friend that we can purchase bulk eye of round at Sam's Club and grind it ourselves for a savings of over $1 per pound for hamburger!  And it is at least 90% lean!!  That is a deal!
So, off Vernon and I went to the store and came home with 240 pounds of meat -- mostly beef but also boneless chicken!
We filled the fridge outside!
Dad was the master of grinding!

 Large "Eye of Round" at Sam's Club was $2.32 by the case.  
We bought 2 cases! 

Louie wasn't sure what was going on, but 
he liked a little treat now and then!
Our double stacked canner is nicknamed "the rocket!"
When it gets a going you wonder if it is going to take off!!

We took the ground beef and cooked it up with dehydrated onion and whole wheat kernals.  Then packed it in jars and processed it for 90 minutes at 11 pounds of pressure.  When it was done, the wheat kernals are cooked and blend right in with the hamburger and you can hardly find them!
 There is one slab of fat on one side that we cut off and the rest of the
meat was incredibly lean!
 Task was completed with 240 pounds of cooked, frozen and/or canned meat by Thursday -- just 4 days later!  That is team work!!!