There is a quote: "LIFE IS NOT ABOUT WAITING FOR THE STORMS TO PASS.... IT'S ABOUT LEARNING TO DANCE IN THE RAIN."
With 12 children and 5 adopted from Russia, we have had challenges and trials along with our joys. We have decided that we must
learn how to "dance in the rain." We must notice and acknowledge the joys and miracles in our lives.
They exist daily -- we just need to make sure we do not miss them!! This blog is to remind us of these miracles and joys!

Thursday, May 31, 2012

MAY 31, 2012 -- THURSDAY

GARDEN BEDS, HAULING TOPSOIL, KNOCK OUT ROSES, & PLANTING FLOWERS

Mason just makes everything more fun!!  I'm not sure why, but he has always liked tipping his head then I take a picture.  I wonder if it is because I tip the camera on its side to take an vertical shot??  Mason runs around our new path and leaps across the rock paths and says "we need to make a map!"

This morning David, Benjamin and Mom finished building the garden beds.  Mom started smoothing and leveling the garden area to fine tune the beds so they are level!  The concrete workers messed it up a bit, out of necessity, to pour the concrete so we have to fill in along the new concrete.  Rachel planted about 12 more of the pink Knock Out Roses -- Benjamin and Joseph had dug the holes on Tuesday!
I was getting tired and was thinking I should hire a local man to move the topsoil for us with his tractor.  When I told the kids what it would cost, Benjamin said, "If I do it, will you pay me?"  I said, "sure!"  (Sorry Vernon.:)  I know how much work it is!  We will see if they stick with the big job that they are starting!!  It will be a good test and learning experience!!!

HERE IS HOW WE BUILT OUR GARDEN BEDS:
1.  Built garden bed frames with three 2x8x8 boards -- with one cut in half for the short sides.  Also used 12" pieces of a 4x4 for the corner braces.  Our larger beds were made with six 2x6x8 boards -- with 2 boards cut in half for the short sides.  These beds are 2 boards tall.  I still used a 12" piece of a 4x4 post for the corner supports.
2.  After the garden beds are placed and leveled, chicken wire then weed barrier were used on the bottoms of the beds to keep out critters & weeds and to keep in the rich soil.




 NOTE:  I wanted a few more beds, but didn't want to purchase a big length of a 4x4 post, so I skipped the corner supports and just made the bed out of three 2x8x8.  See the picture below.





3.  Filled the bed just under 3/4 full with topsoil -- all hauled by children! (see following story)


 


4. Added (1) 40lb bag of cow manure compost, about a 1/4 of a bail of peat moss,  and 1/4 of a bag of coarse vermiculite.

5.  Mixed it in by turning with a shovel  and then smoothing out.














So ---- today Benjamin recruited and energized his team and they started to move topsoil to the garden beds.  It took them (Ben, Bethany, Rachel and David) about 40 minutes to move one load.  It was a very full wheelbarrow and the wheels were flat.  I couldn't even get it to move.
With money as the incentive -- I'm not sure what Benjamin is wanted to buy, but he is motivated to earn some money!!! --- and determination in their leader; they worked.

I bribed the 4 kids -- Ben, Bethany, Rachel and David -- that if they could carry the 3 new garden beds all the way down, including the big double bed, then I would take them to Sonic tonight for 1/2 price shakes!  They did it!!!  I wasn't sure they could handle the weight of the big garden bed -- but I should doubt the strength of my Russian kiddos the the motivation of a treat!

This afternoon,  David and Bethany both had friends come over and play.  I started to crash with a head cold and sore throat.  When the friends went home, I told the kids I had to go to bed!!!  They all gave support and said they were going to go work on topsoil.  I went to bed.

I was so impressed -- They decided to work for a solid hour and they recruited Joseph to help.  In that hour, they were more unified and worked as a team better than I had ever seen -- I mean EVER seen!  I guess this morning they had worked through their arguments and were ready to be a team.  They decided to build a little dirt ramp to get the wheel barrow up over the curb to the garden.  We had found the air pump so they pumped up the tires on the wheel barrow so it could handle the weight of the dirt.  They decided that smaller loads moving faster was more efficient.  They each took a job.  Joseph could shovel the most topsoil the fastest so his work counts double -- since he can't work in the mornings due to his CPEP/ACT class.  Rachel raked to level it out, etc.  Now a lot of this is common sense -- but remember we have a kids ages 16, 13, 12, 11, and 8 working together without any adult input and at least 3 of those kids are strong opinioned kids!  I was impressed.  Every once in a while I would peek out my window and see them still working.

I finally went down to put flowers in and they were heading up because they had finished their one hour and had filled 2 beds to finished and started the other 2 large beds.  That is about 12 full wheel barrow loads of topsoil -- so they probably hauled at least 20 smaller loads!!!  They improved quite a bit from this morning!
We planted a few Echinasia, Yarrow and Veronica. 


Bethany stayed and helped me plant flowers and Joseph, Benjamin, Rachel and David when on Joseph's daily walk that they missed this morning.

As Bethany and I worked, she talked about how they had all worked together and the strategies they created to get the job done.  She also said, "Mom, when you first told us that we would be working outside every morning I was not happy and didn't want to.  But now, I like it!!  It is fun to get the project done!  It is looking so pretty out here!  I love the fishing spots!!"  Yeah!!!! thinks the mom!


MAYY 30, 2012 -- WEDNESDAY

GARDEN BEDS, "OVER AND OUT", 
AND YW CAMP PLANNING

Today was a very productive day!  This morning, Benjamin worked with me and we built 4 large raised garden beds.  We counted that he drilled 254 holes this morning!  He was the drill master!  We let Hyrum and Joseph haul the finished product down to the new garden area.


Benjamin -- the "drill master" of the day!!!
The first level of our raised beds that finish out at 8'x4'x12" deep.  We made 4 of these!








 David and Mason were so fun to watch and listen to!!!  They have become quite good buddies the last week or so as they are the only little boys at home right now.  David is so kind and patient with Mason and Mason loves being a big boy with David.  The boys were playing like they had radios.  David had made one out of some styrofoam -- he's our creative engineer!  Mason would hold his hand up to his ear and say, "Hello. This is Mason.  I have to go get my shoes.  Be right back.  Over and out!"  It was so cute.  He always finished with "over and out."

 It was a miracle -- today Mason said, "Mom, take my picture!!"



 Another really cute thing Mason does is that when I ask him to do something for me like turn of the water hose or run get my purse .. he will respond "I'm on it!!!"
Our buddies!
 This afternoon, we purchased the remaining compost and peat moss needed for the garden beds as well as some tomato and pepper plants!  I am so excited to plant!

This morning at 7:30am, Rachel and Bethany left to go to Silver Dollar City with Annaliece Clark and her mom.  They were so excited!  Neither of them had ever been on a roller coaster and Annaliece is a pro so she didn't even think to mention anything about it!  Well, it was more that they expected but they survived and had fun doing rides all day!  It reminded me of the time I took Alison to World's of Fun with Zonnie and Melvin and took her first on the "Mamba" and about scared her to death.
A picture of "Thunderation"

Here is personal record of the girls' experiences!!!
BETHANY:




RACHEL:




This evening, we had the young women over to our home for some camp planning!  Just a little over a week until we go to camp!  Yahoo!

Vernon is doing well in Ghana and we get updates from Robert, Alison, Rebecca and Daniel who are currently in Italy.  They arrive here in Arkansas next week.








Monday, May 28, 2012

MAY 28, 2012 -- MEMORIAL DAY

MEMORIAL DAY 2012

We started the day with hauling rocks.  We thought we had worked pretty hard!  Hyrum, Benjamin, Rachel, Bethany and David all worked with mom and we made a lot of progress!  We also moved some extra gravel down to the pond edge to help soak up the muck and mud.
The afternoon brought naps!!!
About 3pm, the Bennett family came over and Brother Ron Bennett was ready to work!  I had mentioned moving rocks.  There were 3 especially big rocks down in the water edge that I was wishing we had but I said that I couldn't even budge them so I didn't know if we could get them moved.  Ron said, "You bet we can!" We got Hyrum and Joseph out and with the tractor, trailer, a couple of 2x4's and some pure "freezer power" those men moved the rocks!!  The biggest one was probably 300+ pounds -- by Ron's estimation!
The rocks were hauled over to our new "fishing spot" and we created two very nice steps for going down to the pond.  We had created a path down the hill earlier in the day and Ron helped us finish out a very nice landing!  We also created and rock area up on the hill for sitting, too!  Our big project is shaping up nicely -- step by step!!
Tomorrow we dig up "Monkey Grass", build the remaining garden beds and the workers finish pouring our concrete -- then we can finish planting the "Knock Out Roses!"

After the work, we swam and BBQ Teryaki Chicken and Roasted some delicious vegetables!  Watermelon hit the spot for dessert.
Rachel and Mason
David relaxes and reads after his swim
Brother Ron Bennett helps David set up his fishing pole!

To finish off the evening, the kids went fishing down on our new rocks and caught several fish!
Playing on the playground was necessary as we headed up to the car to say goodbye!
We sure enjoyed the Bennett family this evening!  Thank you for spending today with us!
  


Bethany caught a little Perch but wouldn't touch it!


Rachel caught a good sized Catfish


Rachel and Bethany enjoying a fishing spot!
 
Mason on his 3rd or 4th can of pop -- he doesn't drink the whole thing, but still ..... who is his mother!! :)
 
Bethany caught another fish!!!


David finally caught a fish using the small baby snake that he killed for me this morning -- it was under a rock that we moved. 

Sunday, May 27, 2012

May 27, 2012 -- A PEACEFUL SABBATH AND INDOOR CAMPOUT

A PEACEFUL SABBATH AND INDOOR CAMPOUT

Today was a beautiful Sabbath day.   The speakers in church gave great messages about sacrifice and service.  I taught the lesson in Young Women and we had a special feeling and the spirit was so strong as we talked about reaching out to others.  We watched this wonderful video clip about some young women in Arizona who helped and served a girl in their youth group.  It was touching.  My heart was touched as I saw tears in the girls' eyes and knew they were feeling the spirit.

This afternoon, we took a nap and relaxed.  We went outside for a bit and watered the new trees.  Bethany and David made dinner for us and we ate on the deck in the wonderful cool breeze.  The kids wanted to sleep in the deck tonight but also wanted to watch a Sunday movie so they compromised with cots and sleeping bags in the Exercise Room!  Indoor camp out with all the luxuries of electricity! Before they started their movie, we read scriptures and had a really neat 30 minutes discussion about 2 Nephi 28:19-the end.  We talked about some "tricks" or "strategies" that Satan uses to lead us away from the truth and the church.  We listed: 1.  stirring hearts to anger against good things or good people; 2. pacify or "lull" people to be "half asleep" like bees in smoke, to just not do what they need to do 3.  telling people lies to "flatter" them and have them hear what they want so they can do what they want.  We talked about our pre-mortal life and that in heaven, at our big family council with Heavenly Father, Satan's plan wasn't chosen so he didn't get to "be in charge" or get "all the attention and glory" so basically he is now throwing a bit temper tantrum and trying to make everyone miserable and can't stand to see us happy and free because he is dis-regulated and scrambling and mad.

The kids relate to that, unfortunately, because of the challenges we have had at home with Matthew.
I was so proud of some of the connections that Rachel and David were making and talking about with experiences at school and stories we have discussed.  They are good kids!!!
Indoor Campout!

Bethany

David

Rachel




MAY 26, 2012 -- DAVID WILL SAVE US!

MAY 26, 2012 -- DAVID WILL SAVE US 

FROM THE ALIENS!!


Today was spent getting Vernon ready to go on his trip to Ghana.  We worked a few hours in the morning and then we were both tired -- too much late night dancing with the teenagers -- so we both took a morning nap!  We must be getting old!  Then we worked and finished up and he ran some errands.  At 3:30pm Hyrum drove Dad to the airport for his flight.
At home, we planted 6 "knock out roses" and watered all the new trees then got cleaned up and went to a wedding reception. It was fun!  We also had one of the girls' friends stay with us this weekend while her parents were out of town.
A happy event of the day was helping David make his alien hat out of aluminum foil.  He originally wanted me to totally wrap him in aluminum foil but I got him to agree to a hat.  He got this idea from a Hannah Montana episode.  He then made himself a "taser gun."  He is constantly on the look out for aliens and it is a great way to get him to follow Mason outside while I work so that he is not captured by aliens!!!
David is so creative and will be a very clever engineer or builder or architect someday!!!
David will save the world!!!


Saturday, May 26, 2012

May 25, 2012 -- FRIDAY & 1ST DAY OF SUMMER

CONCRETE, KOOL-AID STAND, AND DANCING

Today was one of the best family days every -- it was "heaven" for me as the mom!  Let me tell you why!
I am so excited about our last big landscape project.  This will finish the "hardscape" for our outdoors and then the rest is planting, weeding, and maintenance.  The concrete came today for the first half of our pathway.  It is looking good!!!

Big trucks always make me think of by big brother, Ross.  I always wish it was him pulling up to deliver our stuff!

4 of our newly planted trees!

Pouring concrete down along the pond.  You can see our new "Cork Screw Willow" down on the right lower part of the picture to the left of the boy in the white shirt.  It should triple in size in the next year or so!

There is our big Maple tree waiting to be planted.  They have to finish the concrete work first!  It has been so windy that we had to tie down the trees to the garden trellis!

KOOL AID STAND
Since it was the first day of summer, of course Bethany had to plan a "Kool Aid" stand.  They made some brownies, too.  We aren't sure if they ate more than they sold -- we think they did -- but they made $8.00.
The man who has done our dirt work, Steve, said he stopped and bought a brownie from the kids.  He said that he asked one of my daughters how much the brownies were and she replied, ".25 for one and .75 for 2."  He then said, "What if I pay $1 for 2 brownies."  My daughter, which I knew immediately was Rachel and not Bethany, gave him a "thumbs up!"  Steve got a big chuckle out of that one!!

LtoR:  Bethany and David, Jade and Gavin (our neighbors)
A picture of our house.  The ivy has gone wild!


FINAL PARTY
Tonight, Hyrum and his friends wanted to have one more big party before many of them start off on summer plans, trips, jobs, etc.  It was so great!  This group of kids is great and so much fun!!!  There were probably about 20-25 kids here with a core group of about 15 that stayed the whole time.  They went swimming, cooked BBQ, played on swings, sat and talked, played basketball, played "knock out", danced -- ballroom style with the swing, fox trot, waltz, cha cha, etc.  It was so fun.  Vernon and I even joined in on one swing number!!!!  It was a fantastic evening!  I told Vernon that is was heaven for me!
During the daylight hours of the party, Vernon and I worked on some landscaping and tranplanted the water Iris.  The party kids played with Mason and included Rachel, David and Bethany.  Rachel and Bethany got in the pool later and swam until about 11pm.  Fun stuff!!!

Bethany and Rachel ballroom dancing in the pool!

Joseph doing the Foxtrot with ??

David playing "tennis" with Drew

Hannah tells Carter how it is

Nicole and Emile

Hyrum chillin' in the 2 person hammock

Mason and Carter

Ian gets a dance lesson from Alexa

Mason runs off with the bag of chips

Mason doesn't like his picture taken lately.

Hannah and Carter

The dance floor!

Rachel being Rachel

Bethany likes the Hammock, too!