There is a quote: "LIFE IS NOT ABOUT WAITING FOR THE STORMS TO PASS.... IT'S ABOUT LEARNING TO DANCE IN THE RAIN."
With 12 children and 5 adopted from Russia, we have had challenges and trials along with our joys. We have decided that we must
learn how to "dance in the rain." We must notice and acknowledge the joys and miracles in our lives.
They exist daily -- we just need to make sure we do not miss them!! This blog is to remind us of these miracles and joys!

Monday, May 27, 2013

MAY 27, 2013: HYRUM'S MISSION LETTER #2

LETTER FROM HYRUM: MAY 27, 2013


I have the feeling that almost every one of these letters is going to start with something along the lines of "Wow, what a week!"
Wow, what a week!
Every single day here is chock full of things to do. Almost every minute from 6:30 to 10:30 is scheduled. It's exhausting, but also incredible! I've never felt so productive in one day than I do now. We are truly living the law of consecration, and giving every minute and part of our lives to the Lord. It's an amazing feeling, and I'm glad I get to do that for the next two years.

My Chinese is coming. It feels like it's coming really slowly, but then I remember that I've only been here like 11 days. At that point, my brain explodes. It feels like so much longer. It's cool because some expressions are becoming habits in Chinese. My favorite things to say are "dui bu qi" which translates roughly to "excuse me", "nimen hao" which translates roughly to "Hey, y'all", and "wo de tong ban zai nali?" which means "Where is my companion??"

Chinese is awesome, because it has NO TENSE. That means that if you want to say something happened yesterday, you just put the word yesterday in the sentence and say the same verb. Everybody who has learned a conjugating language, eat your heart out. The grammar is fairly simple. There aren't any articles to deal with, you just stick all the important words right next to each other. THAT SAID, Chinese is really difficult. The difficulty comes from the fact that nothing in Chinese corresponds even remotely to it's English equivalent, and because there isn't any similar language to compare them (think Latin or Germanic), words often don't translate directly, or there are three different ways to say "can" that all mean different things even though English only has one. On top of that, there are tones. If you don't say the word with the right inflection, then you're saying the wrong word!

It'll come though. I'm still frequently amazed at how far we have come in the incredibly short time we've been here. I've been told that 1 week in the MTC is equivalent to 1 month in the field which is equivalent to 4 months in any other place. That, my friends, is the gift of tongues at work.

I absolutely LOVE my district. I was admittedly a little skeptical, as I usual am, when we met. I wasn't sure if it would be a fun group of people. Boy was I wrong. The MTC is hard and all, but the MTC is also incredibly FUN. This group of people is a large part of what makes it fun. It's a little like band camp. Or choir camp or church camp or anything like that. You find that group of new people you didn't know before, and by the end of the camp, you are best friends and you never want to leave them. That's what the past week and a half has been for our district. And we've still got 8 weeks to go! I think I've laughed more in the past week and a half than I did the whole last semester! These people are great!

I think the MTC is just everything at once, because as well as being really difficult and really fun, it's also really spiritual. I remember on Saturday when I walked back through those gates after being out on the field. There is a tangible difference in feeling between outside the MTC, and inside the MTC. It's so real. The Spirit lives here, constantly, and it's so powerful. Even sitting in a somewhat noisy room in the computer lab here with 20 clicking keyboards, I can still feel that same Spirit. It's incredibly uplifting, and I know I want to cherish the next 8 weeks that I can continue to have that feeling here constantly.

Some other fun things:
-There was a Sister in the Cafeteria whose nametag said "Sister Richardson", and I didn't know why (then), but I stopped her and commented on how I hadn't seen any other Richardsons. Well, it turned out that she was from Mesa, AZ and that we were second cousins! Her grandpa is Grandpa Jay's twin brother. I thought that was pretty cool!

-All of the people going to Taiwan had to give a stool sample last week. I'm trying to forget that.
-I think it was Thursday when my companion and I came in from studying outside, and there was this old guy without a nametag talking the some of the people in my district classroom. Well, I'm glad we were nice to him, because it turned out he was the General Sunday School President, who had somehow picked our class to come observe for a little while. We were all glad we were on task and studying while he was there!

-I also saw my Mission Prep teacher from Winter semester in the health clinic last week. That was really neat!
-A big Thank You to Sami for giving me my nice journal. I write in it every night, like we're supposed to. Xie Xie Ni!

Thank you so much to everyone who has sent me letters! So here's the thing: we are only allowed to write letters on P-Day, which for us is Monday. And the mail room is closed on Saturday and Sunday and they don't print the dearelders until 5 o clock each day. So last week, right after my letter writing time was up (P-Day ends at 6) I got a huge stack of letters, and I've had to wait all week to reply to them! But since it's memorial day, and sadly, the temple is closed, I'll have more time to write today, and I should be able to reply to all of you. So if you want me to reply to you on a Monday, try to send dearelders in before 4 o'clock (MDT) the Friday before! I wish it was a better system, but it's not and that's okay. 

Thank you so much for sending me letters! It's so exciting every day after dinner to see if I got anything, and I read your letter at least three times during the week. It's such a strength to me.

Please continue to pray for me. I know that I need it!
Until next week,
Tian Zhanglao
Elder Richardson

MAY 27, 2013: STRAWBERRY HARVEST

STRAWBERRY HARVEST
MAY 27, 2013

We are having a wonderful strawberry harvest this year!!!
This is the pile that was just picked this morning!!  
Delicious!  I forsee a chicken strawberry salad for lunch today!!!!
Add a little Mozz cheese and some sliced almonds with a Raspberry vinaigrette and it will be heaven!
Bethany is really growing up!!!  I have to brag on her just a bit:
Yesterday, she played "Come, Come, Ye Saints" on the piano for the opening song in Young Women!  She was also called yesterday to be the Beehive Class Secretary!  She is so excited!  I love my  Bethany!  I love it when she comes to me and says, "Can I have a hug?"


MAY 26, 2013: TURKEY LEG AS BIG AS YOUR HEAD!

TURKEY LEG AS BIG AS YOUR HEAD!
MAY 26, 2013

Late last December, Dad found a screaming deal on 
turkey -- .50 per pound!  
He purchased 28 turkeys that we stuffed in our freezer!!! On Saturday, we bought 240 pounds of meat to can and we decided we should do some of the turkey as well.  We cooked 2 turkeys this weekend.
One for Sunday dinner, again, and another to bone and can.  David and Rachel asked for the turkey legs and sure enjoyed their treat!   Louie, our dog, always likes turkey day because he gets to eat the yummy skin!




MAY 25, 2013: FUNNEL CAKE

FUNNEL CAKE
MAY 25, 2013

While at Silver Dollar City on Friday, we saw some funnel cake!  I told Joseph that I had pinned a recipe for Funnel Cake!  So ... Satuday evening we gave it a try and boy we had fun!!!  Joseph helped perfect the art of cooking the funnel cake and we enjoyed eating it!!!
Joseph and Bethany refill our squirt bottle!
Mom fries it in hot oil!
Rebecca gives it a "thumbs up!"

MAY 19, 2013: BABY ABIGAIL

ABIGAIL MARIE
MAY 19, 2013

Well, it came time for Grandma to go home.  My two weeks with my kiddos in Utah was ending.  My week with little Abigail was coming to a close.  I know she will grow and change so much just in the few weeks that we are gone until we return for her baby blessing on June 16th.  We are so grateful to Heavenly Father that she came to the earth safely and is growing and doing well.  We are grateful that she has such wonderful parents!  She is in for a fun and happy life!
We love you Abigail!

Abigail and Grandma Connie Richardson
My brother, Roland, sent me an email and told me that since I was a grandma now that I had to quite dyeing my hair and go grey like the rest of them!
Ha ha!

3 Generations
Connie, Alison and Abigail

Robert and Alison Clawson Family
with sweet little Abigail

 One of Abigail's first days home from the hospital, we made her a bunch of receiving blankets.  
I remember when I mom did this for me when Joseph was born and all my blankets were flannel.
I enjoyed going to the store and choosing some cute fabrics.
I found a fabric panel of the states in the USA and a panel of the world map!
I had to buy those for Robert.  I could picture him laying Abigail on them and teaching her immediately about the geography of the USA and the World!  
Robert is such a fun Daddy!!!

MAY 14, 2013 -- PACKING HYRUM FOR HIS MISSION


PACKING HYRUM FOR HIS MISSION
MAY 14, 2013

In all the excitement of getting Hyrum to the MTC, I forgot to post these few pictures of the night before when we packed him up!!!  This is all Hyrum will carry with him to live for 2 years!  There is a lot of value in simplicity!!!
We got Hyrum a new set of scriptures for his mission.  This small, compact size will be nice for him.  It was to small to fit "Elder Richardson" so I went with "Elder Hyrum."  I liked it!
From the time Hyrum was set apart as a "full-time missionary" he took that seriously.  No cell phone, no radio, no electronics, etc.  Hyrum took time to sit down and continue to get familiar with the guidelines in the "Missionary Handbook."  Some missionaries through the years have joked and called it the "Missionary Bible" or the "Little White Bible." 
This is it!!!  Hyrum's personal belongings for 2 years!
He has: 10 white short sleeved shirts, 2 long sleeved white shirts, 10 ties, 12 pair of black socks, 2 pair of black shoes, PJs, exercise clothes, rain jacket, umbrella, 1 suit, 5 additional slacks, shower shoes, sandles for Taiwann, 1 set of sheets, power converter, passport holder, scriptures, dirty clothes bag, a few hangers, 12 pair of garments, a super durable belt -- "a rachet belt!", a new watch, battery alarm clock, bath towel, hand towel -- and that is about it!
Basic necessities!

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

MAY 22, 2013: "PAPARAZZI MOMMY"

"PAPARAZZI MOMMY"
MAY 22, 2013

So...... this morning I came to Alison's and I was dressed in my exercise clothes so I could take a walk around the Provo Temple.  I dropped my things off at Robert and Alison's apartment and I got a text from Melissa!  It read: "I just saw Hyrum crossing the street from the MTC to go exercise!" I of course had to ask more questions -- she was on the bus to campus and Hyrum didn't see her.   Well, now what do I do!  If I go on my walk I will surely see him!
Well, I went on my walk anyway and as I walked the sidewalk south of the temple I peered over into the sand volleyball area and there he was!  Elder Hyrum Richardson!  I wished I had my good telephoto lens!
Well, I finished my walk and they were still there so I went into Alison's apartment and snagged my camera! I didn't even leave the apartment lawn area, I snatched a few pictures and he never new!!!

Elder Richardson is in the grey shirt and black shorts to the right of the tree!






MAY 21, 2013: DINNER WITH THE 3 LADIES OF WHITE

DINNER WITH THE 3 LADIES OF WHITE
MAY 21, 2013

This evening I went to dinner with 3 of my favorite people!
Mossi, Sharon, and Kersten White.  With great company and at a great restaraunt, Olive Garden, life can't get much better!
After dinner, Abigail opened up her social calendar for a visit!
What a treat!

Mossi White and Abigail


Connie, Alison, Abigail and Great Grandma Mossi
Kersten, Connie, Alison, Sharon, Abigail and Mossi

MAY 22, 2013: SWEET ABIGAIL

OUR BEAUTIFUL SWEET ABIGAIL
May 22, 2013

I just can't believe how beautiful this little granddaughter is!  She is beautiful and such a good, calm baby.  She is blessed to have her parents and her parents are blessed to have such a happy baby!
Today is Grandma's last day here with Robert, Alison and Abigail.
It has been so wonderful, but it is time to go home and let them move forward as their family unit and for me to get home to the other wonderful kiddos I have back in Arkansas!
Here are some pictures I have taken over the past week.





















MAY 18, 2013: PEANUT BUTTER OREO BROWNIE CUPS

PEANUT BUTTER OREO BROWNIE CUPS
MAY 18, 2013

Bethany sent me a picture of the deadly looking brownies!
So, hey we tried them out!

1. Line your cupcake pans with cupcake liners, then I went ahead and sprayed the liners with cooking spray.
2.  Mix a package of brownies according to the package directions.
3.  Drop a spoonful of brownie batter in the bottom of each cupcake liner.
4. Take one oreo, spread peanut butter (creamy or crunchy) on top.
5. Top that peanut butter tower with another Oreo and then spread peanut butter on top of it.
6.  Place that tower on the brownie batter that is in the bottom of one of the cupcake liners.
7.  Repeat for all cupcake liners.
8.  Now, carefully spoon brownie batter over the top of each Oreo tower so that the batter runs down around the cookies and fills the cupcake liner.  You might need to thin the brownie batter a little bit.
9.  Bake in a 350 degree oven for about 15 minutes.  Check and bake additional time as needed.  Watch carefully so they don't burn -- there really isn't a thick brownie batter to cook, so it cooks quicker than you think.
10. Enjoy!

Monday, May 20, 2013

MAY 20, 2013 -- MTC PICTURES FROM HYRUM

MTC PICTURES FROM 
ELDER HYRUM RICHARDSON
So fun to see Hyrum so excited about his mission!


Hyrum's schedule for the first week at the MTC

Hyrum's MTC badge, room key and vial of oil


Hyrum's ministerial license to teach in Taiwann

Hyrum's name tag -- he couldn't wait to get this!!!!!


The cinnamon rolls that Melissa made for Hyrum were delivered by her friend who works there.  The rolls didn't last very long with hungry elders around!

Elder Hyrum got mail!!!

Elder Hyrum Richardson


It was a long day!!!  I guess they need to build up their stamina!!